What aren't you doing in the bedroom that you'd like to be doing? Did you used to do those things? Have you ever done them? Which of you is the more adventerous one? Which of you is more shy? Which of you approaches sex more emotionally, and which of you more practically? What gets in the way of more and/or better sex? Time? What does 'time' mean here, anyway? Energy? Well, what does 'energy' mean in this context? All of this may be worth wondering about, discussing openly,

You're wearing armor. It works great. It protects you from harm. It's not steel, and it's not a cutting-edge weapon fending off enemies. Your armor is much more impenetrable than those, but it's also less visible. Yours is psychological. Yours is one that defends you from pain and anguish. It fends off loss, abandonment, and rejection. Seems to me that these are what humans fear most. In my personal life, and in my clinical life, these themes dominate. Even when the issue app

You don't say what you think. When we don't say what we really think, and we opt for something less complete, we're being dishonest. If I'm asked to go to a party (that I don't want to go to), and I say: 'Well, uh, I'll just have to see what I'm up to that night. I might be able to make it, but let's see.' This isn't honest. It's not complete, either. It's a soft, cheap way out. Actually, some people even skip that, and end up going to the party they'd rather not be at. This

Should you end your relationship? Ask yourself these questions.

Anxiety is a commonly used word, but can you define it? Do you understand what it is, where it comes from, and its purpose?

When you feel anxiety, what should you do?